How can a Psychic Medium help with grief?

Now that you know my story and why I do what I do, I’ve decided to talk a bit more about grief and how it affects us in reference to my core mission of healing through mind, body, and Soul care. How can a Psychic Medium help with grief?

There are numerous reasons that we can end up suspended in a grief state.

It’s never fun but it’s often a catalyst for major growth.

The most obvious reason is the loss of a loved one. Human or animal. Blood family or chosen. It hurts all the same.

I have the utmost respect for therapeutic modalities and I’ve been to numerous therapists throughout my life. Undoubtedly there’ll be more times I seek out professionals in the field. In many ways, it helped. In some ways, it didn’t. That longing to communicate with my mother on the other side of the veil was palpable and it was the only thing that truly healed my shattered heart.

As a Psychic Medium, that’s the kind of healing I strive to deliver with every single reading I provide. That deep-sigh-of-peace moment! Often it comes with tears and tissues, empathy and empowerment. I feel such privilege to be on the opposite side of my desk or a Zoom call delivering evidence and messages from loved ones in the Spirit world for my clients.

And I don’t take it lightly!

To be a conduit for healing in this way is my most cherished part of my business and how I know I’m now living my making rather than making a living.

Grief affects our heart, Soul, brain, and body. It can cause mental, emotional, and spiritual distress - but it can also cause our machine (body) to break down in the same way a vehicle that hasn’t been maintained properly does. To me, mediumship readings are a pivotal step in healing the heart, mind, and Soul allowing progress to be made in healing the one and only machine that carries them.

That suspended state of grief though…it can happen for other reasons and that’s where the psychic/intuitive part of a Psychic Medium enters the picture.

We can find ourselves grieving for many other reasons:

• Loss of a job or ending a career path

• Long-term difficulties in relationships

• Loss of a home or security at home

• A sudden change in life

• The end of a romantic relationship

• Severing ties in a friendship

• Worrying about children

• Closing a chapter of any kind that feels like the rug has been pulled out

• An existential crisis

• Persistent crippling anxiety

These situations often feel permanent and hopeless.

My goal during psychic/intuitive readings is to give my clients clarity about their Soul’s journey, a path forward, a way to get unstuck and out of the rock bottom.

It isn’t about predicting fortune and future. It’s about shedding light on what the Soul wants.

It’s knowing that timelines can change because we all have free will.

It’s about embracing the information given by Spirit guides and one’s own Soul to navigate forward.

It’s about finding the beacon of light and running towards it!

I love seeing the a-ha moments and the twinkle return to eyes.

I feel honored to walk with the Spirit world, my clients, and grief.

I’d like to take a moment here to recognize the systems of oppression that exist. Marginalization, injustice, and abuse, while they most definitely cause extensive grief, should be approached as more nuanced. There’s not a magic cure-all and I’m not offering a simple solution for such circumstances. What I can offer is acknowledgement that everyone is deserving of safety, security, respect, and freedom and I can use my gifts to help with progress, even if it’s a small step in a much longer journey of intentional empowerment.

With that said, I think it’s worthwhile to also talk about when a Psychic Medium isn’t the best choice for particular moments in time.

• When safety is compromised, other more adequate measures should be taken to ensure one gets out of the unsafe situation.

• When someone is having suicidal thoughts, important mental health resources are needed, not a reading.

• When someone is acting erratic, angry, or impatient, it’s not a good time for a reading for anyone involved.

• When someone has a fresh loss of a loved one, I encourage a bit of a wait so they can process some of that loss before having a mediumship reading. There’s no set time but I often suggest six months. The last thing I want is for someone to come to me for a reading and become dependent on that connection. Time to process through at least some of the stages of grief is necessary and important, even if it’s incredibly painful. And I get it, I was suspended in many of those stages for two and a half looooong years.

My goal is to be present and honest while communicating with anyone wanting to book a reading. And to always give them help and resources for what they need - regardless of whether the signs of any of the above are blatant or subtle.

Simply said - there are times that I shouldn't nor wouldn’t give a reading. And that’s okay. It’s more than okay! The Spirit world always has the best intentions and I work for them! They’re consistently guiding me to do what’s pure, honest, and for the highest good of everyone involved. Integrity above all else.

My mission is to be gentle yet go hard.

To walk with you in grit and in grace.

To give you roots and to give you wings!

To be steadfast when you're bereft.

To help you understand that:

1. grief doesn't rule out a life of happiness - you just need a robust toolkit and help from your Spirit team to maneuver through the muck and hold hands with the despair.

2. energy healing using Reiki is a game-changer!

3. your body speaks to you - you have the power and intuition to listen, know what it needs, and make incremental changes while paying attention to what you're observing and how you're feeling along the way!

4. eating organic whole foods won't make you go bored and broke!

As a Psychic Medium, I'll help you maneuver through those crushing moments...with help from the Spirit world, of course!

As a Reiki Practitioner, I'm here to facilitate healing...a conduit for universal energy to create balance in that machine of yours!

...and as an Intuitive Nutritionist and Wellness Coach, I'm passionate about the fact that what we put into and on our bodies is a crucial part of living a whole-hearted life! It's important to make well-informed choices, while trusting our intuition, when it comes to maintaining the one and only machine we have in this life - creating a safe, secure, and durable home for our Soul to thrive!

If this resonates, check out my website, booking page, Beans for Brekkie course, Instagram, or come see me in person at my office! I offer all of my services online and in person - mediumship readings, psychic readings, Reiki sessions, intuitive nutrition sessions, Reiki/nutrition combo sessions, and more!

Let me know in the comments what content you'd like to see from me or send me a DM on Insta. I absolutely LOVE hearing from y’all! Want to learn more about intuition, how Reiki works, how I approach intuitive nutrition, communication with loved ones in Spirit? I’m all in and here for you with Soul : Machine Nutrition™️!

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